Patience & Fortitude

Mourning Every Day

I don’t write about mourning issues much on this blog, which is ironic; I rebooted my life in 2010 because I was coming out of an extended, 15-year long period of malaise brought on by the deaths of my parents in the mid-1990s. I think I don’t want this...

Grieving Futures, post #3

Authoria: This is part one of the first chapter, “Circumstances”, in which I give some background on my story and what happened with my parents. I discuss in graphic detail their illnesses and deaths, so heed that warning. ~~~~~~~~~~~ Circumstances, part...

Scared to Sprint

Like most women (and, these days, many men), my body image issues are EPIC. I’ve hated those issues, studied them, talked about them, yelled about them…everything you’ve done, and then some. But I was hit recently with an interesting insight that had never...

Sometimes figure things out is the hard part

At last, the final part of this little diatribe: “Committing to something we love just because we love it opens us up to scorn as well as peer pressure to conform (i.e. not be original, unique, or creative).” We are a culture that criticizes people for...

Getting Walled In – or not

Back to the idea of not focusing on what you hate that I posted about a couple of days ago: Here we are at treacherousness part II, “Hating something requires less energy, focus and effort than the complex discovery process of finding what we love.” Hating...