Patience & Fortitude

The time of year to be overwhelmed

Unlike a lot of people here in the U.S., I don’t get very stressed about Christmas. For one thing, if you come from a very small family most of whom are dead, then you don’t really feel the familial pressure of gift giving, cards, parties, traveling, etc. For another,...

REC Saturday: Auntie Mame (movie)

REC Saturday: Auntie Mame Quite by accident, a reconnected with a dear lost friend and when I went to friend her on FaceBook, I realized that we both had the SAME Auntie Mame quote in our profile: “Life is a banquet and most poor suckers are starving to death!” (We...

Opening the Possibility Box

It’s not that my (small, scattered) family has financially and emotionally helped support me through this very challenging year that surprises me; no, what floors me is that they want to. Historically I’ve thought of myself as The Caretaker, a role that became very...

REC Saturday: An inspirational post

This is going to be a short rec, because there isn’t much I can say about Ash’s moving and inspirational “life story” post, The 67 Emotions of Online Success: My Story. I relate to much of her story, which involves the death of her mother when...

REC Saturday: The Enneagram

A while back, my therapist suggested I looking into enneagram studies as a method of self-analysis. I waved my hand around and said “sure!” and ignored her advice completely (which, alas, is something I tend to do a lot. It at least gives her many opportunities to say...